I am extremely
unhappy with my behaviors. I asked myself: Am I behaving differently than a
normal human behave? Am I too rude? Am I egoistic? Am I selfish?
And do I need assistance and advice?
It is said that if we
find mistakes in other, it’s not other mistake but mistake is within us.
Keeping above statement in my mind, I realize and give, always a second thought
before I blame to other about the mistake I observed.
Getting annoyed
frequently with no reason will be my and your attitude problematic. We should
know we are problematic sometime. We can’t be perfect.
What could be the
solution for correction of our attitude? I believe, to obtain a train mind is
the solution for correcting the problematic behaviors. Speaking about the train
mind, I remember the only means to attain a train mind with the practicing of
dharma. I find, there are no way we can achieve a train mind. It may depend
upon the individual. You may prefer different way in achieving a train mind but
I find nothing a good solution to attain a train mind by practicing dharma.
It’s my responsibilities
to clear a doubt to the reader. A reader would have a question, how I can practice
dharma? I say practicing dharma but it’s not necessarily that we have to wear a
robe and stay in gonpa (temple). We have
to have believe and faith on root teacher (Tsa- Wa- Lam) and have a listening
time on their valuable talks on Buddha teaching.
Training of my mind
is my long time desire and still hoping to do that.
Take your time to contemplate and be alone. Talk to yourself and find out who you are exactly and what made you acted and behaved differently. Realize this then find out how you want to act as to be yourself. We all need clear mind to decide on what to do next.
ReplyDeleteLike you said, we are not necessarily wearing robe and becoming monk. Dharma can be practiced in our daily life and works as our guide.
Keep calm and I'm sure you will find ways to attain the fine behavior :) All the best Jigme!!!
Thank you very much Madam for your inspiring words.
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